Unloved and today is my birthday....very sad?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY from your friend in Miami!!! Don't be so sad. Things will change for you but you need to take the first steps. Be involved. Call your brothers and sisters-in-law just to chat, or offer to watch your nieces/nephews for an afternoon. People leave you alone because they think you prefer it that way. Smile at people and say hi when you go out. Those are the kinds of baby steps you need to take. Put positive energy out in the world and you'll get it back ten-fold. :) Try to enjoy your day!